Just an after thought!

i was just thinking about some people's ability to ignore and be rude right on your face.....no hesitation, nothing strange....and it looked perfectly normal. then i taught is this their true nature or was it nurtured? I know very well that when one person thinks that he/she is better than the other....that's a sign of arrogance.... not good!  whenever one feels he/she is  better than the others, tendency of looking down on others and being proud of one's assumed good behaviour...mean he/she puts him/herself a level higher than others.

but then back to the subject matter....behaving rudely to others. i wonder when and what allows one to behave in that manner. if it is the nature....someone should tell or advice....but if it nurtured.....maybe there is this problem...unawareness....that it is bad to be rude. Being a mom, a dad, a teacher, an educator...whatever.... should we teach our young ones to select and pick who to be nice to? deliberately or through our own behaviour?

We mould, shape, sculpt, trim, cut......design our lives....our offspring.... build a culture for our family members....we are the decision maker. the idea is what kind of life do we want to live together with our love ones and how do we want them to look at the society......and how do we want the society to look at us and what reputation we plan to get from them..